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October, 2007

 

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In This Issue

 

 

1.Skills are envied more than beauty

2.Negativity leads to early death

3.Problem-Solving can become a problem

4.Why it is difficult to resist tempation

5.'Handsfree' is not 'Mindfree'

6.'Terrible Ten' rude behaviour

7.The stress of Email

 

 

 


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Skills are envied more than beauty

      

     Forget beauty or money – the real thing we envy in others is their skills, according to a new ICM poll, commissioned by the Learning and Skills Council. “Skills are fundamental to our future as individuals and as a nation,” feels John Denham, Secretary of State for Innovation, Universities and Skills.

   90 percent of the respondents, who participated in the poll, believed that they have the ability to control their future using current skills or by learning new ones. 20 percent of the respondents wanted to become an entrepreneur, 14 percent wanted to become a doctor or a nurse and 10 percent wanted to become a teacher. Just 2 percent wanted to become a model and only 1 percent wanted to become a reality TV star.

     “It is great to see that people are realizing that fame is not all, it is cracked up to be. We value real skills and entrepreneurship over instant celebrity,” stated Chris Banks, Chairman of the Learning Skills Council.

     “Investing time and efforts in new skills is a great way to build self confidence. So it’s very interesting to see that people are making this association and recognizing that skills will help them develop the feeling that they are in control of their lives,” explained Dr.Raj Persaud, Consultant Psychiatrist at the Maudsley Hospital. 

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Negativity leads to early death

 

Psychologists agree that the big five personality traits are Extraversion, Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, Emotional stability and Openness to experience. When we think of someone as steady or gloomy, what we are really doing is unconsciously taking a measure of these five traits and crunching them together.

     A number of studies show that people with a heavy dose of neuroticism (the tendency toward negative thinking and opposite of emotional stability) do not handle stress well and subject themselves to increased mortality.

     Daniel Mroczek, a psychologist at Purdue University, wanted to explore whether this inherited trait is a death sentence or people with this propensity toward negativity, can change their destiny.

     Mroczek tracked more than 1600 men over 12 years, recording not only how neurotic they were at the start but also whether they got more neurotic or less neurotic over time. He looked at the mortality risk for these men over an 18-year span.

     Mroczek found that men who got more and more stressed, worried and fretful increased their risk of dying, mostly from cancer and heart disease. This downward spiral of increased neuroticism gave them a ticket to an early grave.
     Mroczek also found that men with a fretful temperament, if they managed to calm down over time, had survival rates similar to those of emotionally stable men. That’s good news and incentive to develop emotional stability. 

  

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Problem-solving can become a problem

Anita Tucker, a doctoral student at Harvard Business School observed hospital nurses for 239 hours, watching them solving problems.

     When there was a shortage of linen due to an ill-timed delivery, they borrowed linen from the next unit. When the medication instruction was not clear, they managed to track down the physician and get it cleared. When the security tags fell off the newborns’ ankles, they combed the entire nursery and found them.

     Are such problem-solving methods good? “Yes as well as no,” says Anita Tucker. It is good because patients get excellent care. It is bad because the root of the problems is never addressed and problems become perpetual.

     These problems, however minor they may be, must be recorded, causes must be looked into and remedial measures must be taken. For example, ordering extra supply of linen for weekends and ordering better quality security tags that do not come off ensures that these problems do not recur.

     Addressing the root of the problems ensures that employees can perform more efficiently if they don’t have to spend time on solving these recurring problems. Identifying the source of these minor problems and initiating action to prevent them from happening ensures that these minor problems do not become major problems.

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Why it is difficult to resist temptation

    

     The social problems we face today such as addictions, overeating, breaking the law – all have one thing in common – our inability to say no to our temptation. Why do we lack this crucial ability to restrain our temptation?

     Michael Inzlicht of the University of Toronto and colleague Jennifer Gutsell studied what happens in our brain, when our vices got the better of us. They asked the participants to suppress their emotions while watching an upsetting movie. The participants reported their ability to suppress their feelings on a scale from one to nine. Then they were asked to complete a Stroop task which involves naming the colour of a printed word, instead of saying the printed word (for example, saying black when reading the word blue written in black colour), another task which requires a significant amount of self-control.

     The researchers found that those who suppressed their emotions best while watching the upsetting movie, performed worst on the Stroop task, indicating that they had used up their resources for self-control. An EEG performed during the Stroop task confirmed these results.

     After engaging in one act of self-control our brain seems to fail in the next act, requiring self-control. This could be due to the reason that we have limited resources to control ourselves and all acts of self-control come from the same source.

     These results have significant implications for those aiming at behaviour modification. For example, a person aiming to quit both smoking and drinking will find it easier to achieve his goal, if he aims to quit one at a time.  

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‘Hands free’ is not ‘Mind free’

       The brain can’t simultaneously give full attention to both visual task (sight) and auditory task (sound), according to a study by Johns Hopkins University. The reason is that directing attention to listening effectively turns down the volume on input to the visual parts of the brain explains Steven Yantis, a professor in the University’s department of psychological and brain sciences, the lead author of the study.

     In the study conducted in a neuro imaging lab, healthy young adults in the age group of 19 to 35 years were asked to view a computer display while listening to voices over headphones. They watched a rapidly changing display of multiple letters and digits while listening to three voices speaking letters and digits at the same time. Using functional magnetic resonance imaging (FMRI), Yantis and his team recorded the brain activity. They found that when the subjects directed their attention to visual tasks, the auditory parts of the brain recorded decreased activity and vice versa.

     This research helps explain why talking on a cell phone can impair driving performance, even when the driver is using a hands-free device. When attention is deployed to one modality- say the auditory task of listening to the cell phone, it extracts a cost on another modality – the visual task of driving.

     This research also explains why audio cassettes are more effective than video cassettes in learning a language; why people learn better and faster in a calm environment; why people find it easier to recall the lyrics after listening to an audio music album than after watching a video music album.   

 

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‘Terrible Ten’ rude behaviour

 

    

     Research conducted jointly by the Johns Hopkins University and the Jacob France Institute of the University of Baltimore found that ‘discrimination at work’ was at the top of terrible ten rude behaviour.

     The researchers posed thirty examples of rude behaviour to respondents, each linked to a five point Likert scale ranging from 1 (not offensive) to 5 (most offensive). Respondents were asked to indicate the degree to which they personally considered each behaviour offensive. Categories of rude or uncivil behaviour were derived from a survey conducted online through yahoo.com

     The list of ‘terrible ten’ behaviours:  

  1.      Discrimination in an employment situation
  2.      Erratic / aggressive driving that endangers others
  3.      Taking credit for someone else’s work
  4.      Treating service providers as inferiors
  5.      Joke or remarks that mock another’s race /      gender / age / disability or religion
  6.      Children who behave aggressively or who bully others
  7.      Littering (including trash, spitting, pet waste etc.)
  8.      Misuse of handicapped privileges
  9.      Smoking in non-smoking places / smoking in front of non-smokers without asking 
  10.      Using cell phones or text messaging in mid-conversation or during a meeting

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The stress of email

    

    

A study by the University of Glasgow found that emails interrupt work constantly and cause stress. Employees become tired, frustrated and unproductive as they attempt to keep up with the messages. 

     “Email is the thing that now causes us the most problems in our working lives. You want to know what is in there, especially if it is from a family member or friends or your boss. So you break off what you are doing to read the email,” says Dr. Karen Renaud, author of the study.

     The problem is that when you go back to what you were doing, you have lost your chain of thought and of course you are less productive. People’s brains get tired from breaking off from something every few minutes to check emails.

     The study found that 34 percent of the employees felt stressed by the sheer number of emails and obligation to respond quickly and a further 28 percent saw them as a source of pressure.

     Half of the respondents said they checked emails more than once an hour and 35 percent said they checked emails every 15 minutes. Respondents generally felt that they had to respond more quickly to emails to meet the expectations of senders. Females in particular tended to feel more pressure to respond than males.

     Recipients should not constantly monitor their emails since this will negatively affect all other work activities and should instead set aside dedicated email reading times, is the recommendation from Judith Ramsay, a psychologist and Mario Hair, a statistician, co-authors of the study.   

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