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1.
The Noble Eightfold Path
2.
7 Steps to a successful career
3.
Watch out: Your mirror can turn into your enemy
4.Dangers
of making only minimum payment
5.
Music significantly reduces stress during
pregnancy
6.Help
for shopaholics
7.Choosing
a mate: What we really want?
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The Noble Eightfold
Path
The noble eightfold path is one of the teachings of Lord
Buddha. It is considered as a path that leads people
towards ending their suffering.
The noble eightfold path consists of three
divisions – Wisdom, Ethical Conduct and Mental
Discipline. Wisdom consists of right view and right
intention. Ethical Conduct consists of right speech,
right action, right livelihood and right effort. Mental
Discipline consists of right mindfulness and right
concentration.
1.Right View: Since our view of the world forms
our thoughts and actions, right view yields right
thoughts and right actions. Right View is seeing things
as they are and realising the four noble truths. 1.There
is suffering. 2. Every suffering has a cause. 3.
Suffering can be ended by dealing with the cause. 4. The
solution to the suffering is following the noble
eightfold path.
2.Right Intention: There are three types of
right intentions – 1.Intention of renunciation
(Resistance to the power of desire). 2. Intention of
goodwill (Resistance to the feelings of anger). 3.
Intention of harmlessness (Resistance to thoughts and
acts of violence)
3.Right Speech: Right speech is important as
words can break or save lives, make enemies or friends,
start a war or create peace. It involves four areas –
1.To abstain from false speech. 2.To abstain from
slanderous speech. 3.To abstain from harsh speech. 4. To
abstain from idle speech.
4.Right Action: It involves three
principles. 1.To abstain from taking life. 2.To abstain
from taking what is not given. 3.To abstain from sexual
misconduct.
5.Right Livelihood: One must earn his
livelihood in a righteous way and avoid four specific
activities. 1. Dealing in weapons. 2. Dealing in human
being. 3. Dealing in butchery. 4. Dealing in
intoxicants.
6.Right Effort: Without efforts nothing can
be achieved. The same mental energy, that fuels envy and
violence, fuels altruism and kindness. One has to direct
the mental energy towards preventing the arising of
unwholesome mental states (negative thoughts) and to
stimulate arising of wholesome mental states (positive
thoughts).
7.Right Mindfulness: It refers to training
the mind to remain in the present, to be open, to be
calm and to be alert; To suspend all judgments and
interpretations; To just observe and drop if they do
occur.
8.Right Concentration: The two important
characteristics of a concentrated mind are unbroken
attentiveness and the tranquility of the mental
functions. The untrained mind jumps from one thought to
another thought without any control. Such a distracted
mind is a deluded mind. Freedom from distraction induces
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7 Steps to a successful career
Most
people carry a wrong notion that a successful career is
one hat carries a fat salary. It isn’t. A highly-paid
job pays you a high salary. That’s it. It might not
contribute to your happiness. On the contrary, it might
affect your health. It might keep you away from your
family. It might compel you to compromise on your
values. It might lead to developing feelings of
insecurity, guilt, arrogance and depression. It might
even cut short life!
Then what is a successful career? A successful
career is one that satisfies both your physiological
(food, sleep, clothing, shelter) needs and your
psychological (safety, security, health, family
relationships, friendship, respect, praise,
opportunities to develop and utilise your potential)
needs.
How to transform your job into a successful career?
Here are simple steps one has to climb to lead a
successful career, one that ensures not just prosperity,
but happiness and satisfaction as well.
Become an expert in your field: Invest your
time, efforts, and a part of your earnings to improve
your job knowledge to the extent where people consider
you as an expert and consult you.
Acquire soft skills: Whatever your
profession is, soft skills such as communication skills,
people skills, problem-solving skills, time-management
skills etc. would enhance your productivity. Learn these
skills.
Develop an entrepreneur mindset: An
entrepreneur mind is one that believes that there is
always a better way of doing anything – whether it is
production, marketing, or pricing and that every problem
has a solution. Develop this mindset.
Take personal care of your customers: If you
were a customer, how would you like to be treated? Treat
your customer the same way and you will earn the respect
from your customers and the goodwill from your
organization.
Look after your health: If you fall sick
frequently, it will affect not only your morale, but
your organisation’s functioning as well. Of course, your
career progress will also be stunted. Eat healthy food.
Exercise regularly. Sleep well. Stop smoking. Exercise
moderation in alcohol consumption.
Be sincere: Yes, no one likes mistakes, but
everyone knows perfection is not always possible, When
you make a mistake, accept, apologise and correct. It
will earn you respect. If you hide and lie, you will
lose your credibility.
Become indispensable: Whenever there is a
crisis – staff shortage, tight deadlines, computer
breakdowns, customer complaints – be the first one to
offer your services. And in no time, you will become
indispensable to your organization.
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Watch out: Your
mirror can turn into your enemy

A
nose that is slightly big; hair that is little more
curly; a beauty mark in the wrong place – most people
focus on these small details of their appearance while
staring at the mirror. But when these small
imperfections occupy our thought and become an obsession
it turns into a disorder, according to psychiatrist
Kieron O’Connor of the Universite de Montreal.
Among the obsessions, skin receives the most
attention from sufferers. The hair, nose and stomach are
also popular objects of obsession. “Sufferers are
convinced that, part of their body is abnormal, which is
not the case,” says O’Connor. They have difficulty
separating what is real from what is not. People
suffering from this phobia will focus on the physical
attribute they consider flawed, constantly viewing it in
a mirror or asking the opinion of others. They may go to
obsessive lengths to ‘fix’ the problem by wearing too
much make-up, going to a tanning salon or getting
plastic surgery.
“It is as if these people are looking at themselves
in a mirror that deforms their image. They will carry on
an internal conversation and convince themselves that
there is a problem with their bodies, although it is not
based on reality,” said O’Connor. This problem can
affect all aspects of life, work, studies and love and
family relationships. It can stop someone from going out
or at least hiding the body part about which he or she
is obsessed.
O’Connor’s approach to treatment is to look at the
reasons a person starts criticising a part of his or her
body. People must learn to accept their body. They must
learn to focus on its function rather than its
appearance.
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Dangers of making only
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The mere presence of a minimum payment is enough to
reduce the actual amount many people choose to pay on
their credit card bills, according to Dr. Neil Stewart,
psychologist at the
University
of Warwick.
Dr.Neil Stewart’s study focused on the
psychological phenomenon of ‘anchoring’ in which
arbitrary and irrelevant numbers bias people’s
judgments. The research found that anchoring affects the
way people repay their credit card bills. The research
revealed that those people who make only partial
repayments of the outstanding balance (about 35% of the
credit card holders) the suggested minimum payment on
the credit card statement acts as an anchor and lowers
the actual repayment people choose to make.
“Minimum payments distort the behaviour of many
customers in a way that increases interest charges and
increases the duration of their debt,” said Dr. Stewart.
The Consumer Credit Act regulations prescribe a warning
text to accompany minimum payments on statements. The
text warns of the dangers of making only minimum
payments. But card statements of many credit card
providers do not carry this text at all.
People are less susceptible to the effects of
anchoring when they have greater knowledge about it. So
helping people understand how much different possible
repayments will cost them in the long run should help
protect them from anchoring on minimum payments.
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Music significantly
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Music can reduce psychological stress among
pregnant women, according to researchers from the
College of
Nursing
at Kaohsiung Medical University, Taiwan.
The researchers randomly assigned 116
pregnant women to a music group and 120 pregnant
women to a control group. The women had an average
age of 30 years, were between 18 to 34 weeks
pregnant ad expected to have uncomplicated vaginal
deliveries. Half the women were pregnant for the
first time.
“The music group showed significant
reductions in stress, anxiety and depression after
just two weeks,” said prof. Chung-Hey Chen, the
lead researcher and author of the study. Women in
the music group also expressed preferences for the
type of music they listened to, with lullabies,
nature and crystal sounds proving more popular
than classical music.
The lullaby CD included songs like Brahms’
Lullaby and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. On the
classic CD, composers like Beethoven and Debussy
were included. The nature sounds included Tropical
Mystery and Friendly Natives and crystals’ CD
comprised Chinese Children’s rhymes and songs like
little Honey-Bee and Jasmine.
“There are many potential health benefits
that can be gained from close integration of CAM
(Complementary and Alternative Medicine) therapies
into nursing practice and conventional health
care,” says Dr. Greame D.Smith, Seniour Lecturer
at the University of Edinburgh.
“The beauty of the CAM technique described by
Prof. Chen is that patients saw immediate and
significant benefits simply by including half an
hour’s relaxing music into their daily routine. In
a world of sophisticated medical advances, it is
good to see that something so easy and inexpensive
can be so effective,” said Dr. Smith.
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Help for shopaholics |
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Compulsive shopping can lead to financial
problems, family conflicts, stress, depression and
loss of self-esteem.
Researchers Nancy M.Ridgway and Monika Kular
Kinney from
university of
Richmond,
along with Kent B.Monroe from University of
Illinois have developed a new yardstick for
measuring compulsive buying. “The scale is
designed to identify consumers who have a strong
urge to buy regularly, spend a lot of money and
have difficulty resisting the impulse to buy,” the
researchers explained.
Earlier scales depended on the consequences
of compulsive shopping such as financial
difficulties and family strain over money matters.
Hence compulsive shoppers with higher incomes who
might not have experienced financial difficulties
might have not been identified with the previous
mode of measuring.
The researchers identified that compulsive
shopping was linked to materialism, reduced
self-esteem, depression, anxiety and stress.
Compulsive buyers tend to hide purchases, return
items, have more family arguments and possessed
more maxed-out credit cards.
People must learn to recognise these symptoms
to find out whether they have the problem of
compulsive shopping so that they could seek
appropriate help.
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Choosing a
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While humans may pride themselves on being highly
evolved, most still behave like the stereotypical
Neanderthals when it comes to choosing a mate,
according to research by
Indiana
University
cognitive scientist Peter Todd. He found that
though individuals may claim otherwise, beauty is
the key ingredient for men in choosing a mate
whereas security and commitment is what women look
for.
“Evolutionary theories in psychology suggest
that men and women should trade off different
traits in each other, and when we look at the
actual mate choices people make, this is what we
find evidence for,” Todd said.
Participants in the study were asked to fill
out a questionnaire assessing themselves and their
ideal mate according to evolutionarily relevant
traits, such as physical attractiveness, present
and future financial status, health and parenting
qualities. Participants stated that they wanted to
find someone who was like themselves – a socially
acceptable answer.
But what actually happened was, the men
sought the more attractive women and the women
were drawn to material wealth and security,
setting their standards according to how
attractive they viewed themselves.
Another interesting feature was that while
men on average wanted to see every second woman
again, the women wanted to meet only a third of
the men again, indicating that women are much
choosier than men.
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