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February, 2008

 

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In This Issue

 1.Don't be very happy 

2. Sedentary lifestyle accelerates ageing process

3. Using rear seat belts reduces death risk by half

4. Drivers on cell phones clog traffic

5.7 steps to getting out of debt

6.A fight may keep you and your marriage healthy

7.Strategies to handle children's pester power


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Don't be very happy

 Researchers from the University of Virginia, University of Illinois and Michigan State University found that moderate happiness is preferable to extreme happiness.

    Happiness generally correlates with all kinds of positive measures. In general, the happier you, the more successful you are in terms of money, employment and relationships. Happy people are also, on average healthier than unhappy people and they live longer. “Happy people are more likely than unhappy people, to get married, are more likely to stay married, are more likely to think their marriage is good” said Ed Diener, an Illinois psychology professor and one of the study authors.

    Do you then have to become happier and happier? How much happiness is happy enough? 

    The researches found that the highest levels of income, education and political participation were reported not by the most satisfied individuals (10 on the10 – point life satisfaction scale) but by the moderately satisfied individuals (8 or 9 on the 10-point scale).This might be due to the fact that profoundly happy people may be less inclined to alter their behaviour or adjust to external changes even when such flexibility offers an advantage.

     Diener suggests that being elated all the time is not always good for one’s success-or even for one’s health. Studies linking health and emotions show that for people who have been diagnosed with serious illness, being extremely happy doesn’t always improve survival rates. This may be because happy people tend to be optimistic and this might lead them to take their symptoms too lightly, seek treatment too slowly or follow their physician's orders in a half-hearted way.

    “All in all, the evidence indicate that happiness is a worthy goal for those who lack it, but the endless pursuit of even more happiness for the already happy may be counterproductive” said Diener.
    The research reinforces the traditional wisdom.’ Too much of anything is good for nothing.’

  

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Sedentary lifestyle accelerates     ageing process
 

     It is a known fact that regular exercisers have lower rates of cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, cancer, high blood pressure, obesity and osteoporosis. New research at the King’s College London suggests that a sedentary lifestyle may diminish life expectancy not only by pre disposing to ageing-related disease, but also it may influence the ageing process itself.

    Researchers Lynn F Cherkas, Ph.D and his colleagues examined the length of telomeres in the leukocytes (white blood cells) of the volunteers. Leukocytes telomeres progressively shorten over time and may serve as a marker of biological age. Telomere length decrease with age, with an average loss of 21 nucleotides per year.
    
The study throws light on the phenomenon that some 40-year olds look as if they are already 50 and some 50 year olds look as if they were only 40.
      The study also proves right the ancient wisdom.’ It’s only the stagnant water that stinks; Running water never stinks’.
    

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Using rear seat belts reduces
death risk by half
 

    In most of the countries, wearing seat belts by occupants of front seats of vehicles is compulsory, as a number of studies found that wearing seat belts reduced fatality rates.

   Researchers at the University of Granada studied the factors affecting the risk of death for rear-seat passengers. The researchers Pablo Claret and Jose Jimenez studied 2266 accidents involving 5260 rear seat passengers in which 2851 died during a ten-year period. They found that wearing seat belts by rear seat passengers reduced the risk of death by 44 percent.

   The research also found that the death risk was 70percent higher for children less than 2 years old and 28 percent higher for females.

    Another factor analysed by the researchers was the death risk with regard to location of the rear seat passengers inside the vehicle. The research found that passengers who occupy the left side of the vehicle carry more risk when compared to passengers who occupy the centre or right side of the vehicle.

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Drivers on cell phones clog traffic

   Motorists who talk on cell phones drive slower, pass sluggish vehicles less often and take longer to complete their trips, found a study by the University of Utah.

      “At the end of the day the average person’s commute is longer because of that person who is on the cell phone right in front of them,” says Dave Strayer, a University of Utah psychology professor and leader of research team. Highway statistics suggests that drivers on cell phoned are four timed more likely to be involved in an accident." Cell phones not only make driving dangerous, they cause delay too’” says Peter Martin, director of the University of Utah Traffic Lab.
Strayer’s earlier research found that

  • Hands-free cell phones are no less dangerous while driving than hand held cell phones because the conversation itself is the major distraction.
  • When young adults talk on cell phones while driving, their reaction times become as slow as reaction times for senior citizens.

“ When people have tried to do cost-benefit analysis to decide whether we should regulate cell phones, they often don’t factor in the cost to society associated with increased commute times, excess fuel used, increases air pollution, as well as hazards associated with drivers distracted by cell phone conversations,” says Strayer.
“A fatal accident could cost as much as 5 million dollars, if we take into account medical, property and loss-of-income costs,” says Martin.

  If we calculate the cost of accidents and delay, caused by drivers on cell phones, it is likely to be in billions. Cell phones cost the individuals as well as the society dearly.

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7 steps to getting out of debt

  

Your savings works for you, 24 hours a day. Your borrowings also works 24 hours a day, but against you. If you have debts, then one of your new year resolutions must be to get out of debt.

   Here are suggestions that could help you to get out of debt

    

  1. Avoid further debt: Resist your temptations with all your might and say no to any expenditure that increases your debt further.
  2. Prepare a budget: If writing down your expenses seems uninteresting, remember the saying ‘failing to plan is planning to fail.’ If your expenses exceeds your income take some income –generating part-time activity. If that’s not practical, eliminate or reduce expenses on entertainment, restaurants, parties, vacation etc.
  3. Tighten your belt: Implement money-saving measures. Stop drinking. Go vegetarian. Give up cable TV. Take public transport.
  4. Shop for low-cost funds: Call banks and find out which bank charges the lowest interest. Transfer your debt to that bank.
  5. Pay by cash instead by credit cards: Using cash instead of credit cards ensures that we limit our expenses as well as we avoid unnecessary expenses.
  6. Adopt a simple lifestyle: Prefer unbranded goods to branded ones. Use land phones instead of cell phone. Steam cook your food instead of frying. Take to walking instead of paying for the gym.
  7. Step up efforts: Whatever you do to earn your bread & butter do more of it. If you are an employee, it will result in increased wages; If you are a businessman, it will result in increased profits.
     

      Always Remember the ancient adage,’ The borrower becomes the lender's slave’.

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A fight may keep you                          and your marriage healthy

  Couples where both husband and wife suppress their anger die earlier than couples where one or both express their anger, according to a new study by University of Michigan.

     The researchers classified the couples into four groups. Both partners express their anger , both partners suppress their anger and the other two groups one partner expresses, while the other partner suppresses.

     “When both spouses suppress their anger, earlier death was twice as likely than in all other groups”, said Ernest Harburg, a psychology professor and lead author of the study. "If you bury your anger and brood on it, and you resent the other person and you don’t try to resolve the problem, then you’re in trouble”, he said. 

     The study was conducted over a period of 17 years and adjusted for age, weight, blood pressure, smoking and cardiovascular risk.
     The study only looked at attacks that were considered unfair or undeserved by the person being attacked. If the attack is viewed as fair or the attacked person believed he or she deserved the attack, then the victim did not get angry according to Ernest.

 

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Strategies to handle                  children’s pester power

   Parents need to learn how to handle their children’s constant demands. Caving into their pestering power will only lead to more demands and could possibly make them spendthrifts when they grow into adults.

   Here are strategies to manage nagging children.

·      Most of the things children demand  are things they see on TV advertisements. Hence explain it to them that advertisement is for the benefit of the sellers and not to the benefit of the buyers. Explain them the difference between needs and wants.

·         Some of the things that children demand might be due to peer pressure. Talk to them about your family’s financial position and make it clear what your family could afford and couldn’t afford.

·         If their demand is reasonable, work out a plan with their participation, to get it.At the same time get a commitment that they would not demand anything else for a certain period of time.

·         Bring to the child’s notice the fact that things bought previously were seldom used or used for short periods only.

·         Offer alternatives which are less expensive but more useful. Help children develop hobbies which will give them joy and satisfaction and ensure that they do not crave for things.

·         Resist your temptation to pamper them, because you couldn’t enjoy those things when you were a child

·         When one parent says no, the other parent must stick to it. Pampering the children with gifts is not an expression of affection. It’s an expression of insecurity.

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