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January, 2008

 

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In This Issue

New Year message from Inner Universe

 1. Creative work has health advantages  

2. The benefits of getting married and staying married

3. 7 healthy television viewing habits

4. Feed the mind and fatten the wallet

5.It's okay to feel bad

 6.You don't have to be smart to be rich

7.The new frontier of neurophilosophy


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New Year message from Inner Universe

 

    My best wishes for the New Year. This is the time most of us take stock of our past and make plans for the future. We compare our actual performance against the targets we set for different areas of our life – career, family, health, wealth etc. We search for excuses, if we had not reached our targets. And if we had reached our targets, we set higher targets for the New Year.

    For a change, for this New Year, let us set targets in new avenues of our life. Let us resolve to help at least one person to quit smoking. Let us resolve to persuade at least one person to stop using his mobile phone while driving. Let us resolve to convince at least one person to stop eating trans-fats.

    For those of you, who already have these targets in your new year resolution, let me suggest some noble targets. Can we take a resolution to fund the schooling of at least one orphan? Can we take a resolution to fund the medical treatment of at least one sick person? Can we take a resolution to fund the rehabilitation of at least one girl, forced into immoral activities? 

    Social issues like poverty, violence, injustice, discrimination etc affect all of us, directly or indirectly. In our own interest, we must do something to eliminate these social evils and at the same time, we must do something to help the victims of these social evils.

     For most of us, our family consists of our spouse and children and our extended family includes our parents and siblings. Let us release ourselves from this self-sentenced prison and consider the entire humanity as our family and the entire God’s creations as our extended family.

    May The Almighty God bless us with health & wealth, empathy & philanthropy to implement our new, New Year resolutions - Pon

  

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Creative work has health advantages

 

     Employees who have more control over their daily activities and do challenging work they enjoy, are likely to be in better health, according to a new study by the University of Texas.

    “Creative activity is non-routine, enjoyable and provides opportunity for learning and for solving problems. People who do that kind of work, whether paid or not, feel healthier and have fewer physical problems,” said lead author John Mirowsky, a sociology professor at the University of Texas.

     “One thing that surprised us was that the daily activities of employed persons are more creative than those of non-employed persons of the same sex, age and level of education,” Morowsky said. Although people who work do give up some control over their daily activities, the study found that being employed leads to better health generally, regardless of the amount of creativity required in their work.

     The study found that the health advantage of being somewhat above average in creative work (in the 60th percentile) versus being somewhat below average (in the 40th percentile) is equal to being 6.7 years younger. It is also equal to having two more years of education or 15 times greater household income.

     Jobs that are high-status, with managerial authority or that require complex work with data, generally provide more access to creative work. “People with a wide variety of jobs manage to find ways to make them creative. And people with higher levels of education tend to have more creative activities in their lives, paid or not,” Mirowsky said.

  

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The benefits of getting married

and staying married

    Though many people in the developed countries choose to remain single, or choose divorce and separation if married, getting married and staying married has many advantages according to researchers Patrick Fagan, Robert Rector, Kirk Johnson and America Peterson of the Heritage Foundation.

The positive effects of marriage on children

Child abuse is less likely in intact families.

Children from broken families are more likely to take to

crime.

Adolescents in married families are less likely to be   

depressed.

School expulsion is less likely among children in intact

families.

Children in intact families are less likely to repeat a grade.

Children from intact families are less likely to have

behaviour problems. 

Adolescents from divorced families are more likely to

become smokers.

Adolescent drug habit is more common in broken families.

Adolescents from broken families are more likely to be

violent. 

Adolescents from broken families are less healthy.

The positive effects of marriage on adults

Married people are more than twice as likely to be

happy.

Married women are less likely to be victims of domestic

violence.

Married people are less likely to attempt suicide.

The positive economic effects of marriage

Married families have higher incomes.

Majority of poor children come from broken families.

The effect of on the evil practice of abortion

Unmarried women account for 80 percent of all 

abortions. 

Out of wedlock pregnancies are much more likely to  

end in abortion. 

   The findings reinforces our unshakeable faith in the institution of marriage, vouches for the decision of the people who decided to get married, strengthens the confidence of the people who stay married and assists those people who are in a dilemma whether to get married or not.

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7 healthy television viewing habits

   Here are a few suggestions you can implement easily to help your children develop good television viewing habits and ensure that they do not become TV addicts.

     Be a good example: Parents are the role models for most of the children. Hence parents must first develop healthy TV viewing habits so that it is easy to implement these guidelines on children.

     Set time limits: Set time limits for watching TV programmes, movies and computer games. It could be two hour per day if the child is in primary school or one hour per day if the child is in secondary school.     

     Plan what to view: Instead of surfing the channels, use the weekly programme guide to decide which programmes to watch and stick to it. 

     Have only one TV: Even if you are very wealthy to afford a TV in every room, resist your temptation. Have only one TV and have it only in the drawing room. Ruthlessly ban the TV from the bedroom.

     Watch TV with children: Watching TV along with children not only ensures that they watch programmes that are appropriate for them but also satisfies their need that parents spend time with them.

      Watch good DVDs: Watch quality DVDs on subjects such as animals, geography, adventure, humour etc. It could provide wholesome entertainment and could help break the habit of watching TV programmes.

      Help develop hobbies: Help your children develop hobbies such as reading, sports, philately, arts & crafts, learning to play a musical instrument, learning a martial art etc. It will ensure that they do not get addicted to TV.

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Feed the mind and fatten the wallet

  

The British spend nearly twice as much on trips to beauty parlours and hair salons, snapping up the latest cosmetic and toiletry products (20,612 million pounds) than learning a new skill and improving their minds (10,998 million pounds), according to a new study by Learning and Skills Council. The LSC study found another interesting fact: The British spend eight times more eating out (78,858 million pounds).

     Most people believe that money would have the biggest positive impact on their lives. Learning a new useful skill or enhancing those skills you already have is therefore one of the smartest investments to increase your worth and to earn more money.  

     Chris Bank, Chairman, Learning and Skills Council said, ”We need to let people know that if they spend a little more on education, they could actually afford more pampering sessions.” The more you invest in improving your knowledge and skills, the more you can earn.

      Alvin Hall, an independent financial expert agrees. He says, “In our already hectic lives, we frequently overlook the fact that developing new skills and acquiring, fresh knowledge helps us to remain valuable. We are our biggest asset, and it is natural to want to spend money on looking good, but if we invest more on training and learning too, there will be more to spend on make up and facials.”

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It's okay to feel bad

  A 7 year study conducted at the University of Missouri indicates that individuals who take time to stop and think about their losses are more likely to mature and achieve a potentially more durable sense of happiness.

     “People are generally in a hurry to be happy again, but they need to understand that it is okay to feel bad and to feel bad for a while,” according to lead researcher Laura King, who teaches psychology at the University of Missouri. “It’s natural to want to feel happy right after a loss or regrettable experience, but those who can examine ‘what might have been’ and be mindfully present to their negative feelings, are more likely to mature through that loss and might also obtain a different kind of happiness,” said King.

     Drawing on samples of adults who have experienced significant life changing events, King examined the participants’ written accounts of their current best possible selves and unattainable best possible selves that they may have once cherished. King found that those who could acknowledge a part characterized by loss, were more likely to show personality development over time. 

     "People change after potentially tragic events. It is unrealistic to think that you can go right back to the way you were before the event.” It might be best to try and make meaning out of what had happened and start a new life that is tied to what you have learned from the change.

     Being happy is not about forgetting the past, but forming a life that is founded on what you had before, or who you used to be,” King said. 

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You don't have to be smart to be rich

   “People don’t become rich just because they are smart,” according to a new study by Ohio State University. “Your IQ has really no relationship to your wealth. And being very smart does not protect you form getting into financial difficulty,” said Jay Zagorsky, a research scientist at Ohio State University’s Center for Human Resource Research.

     All participants in the study completed the AFQT (Armed Forces Qualification Test), which is the standard test used by researchers to measure IQ. The survey took into account their income, total wealth and three measures of financial difficulty – if they currently have any maxed-out credit cards, if during the past five years whether they missed paying any bills and whether they had declared bankruptcy.

     The results confirmed research by other scholars that showed people with higher IQ scores tend to earn higher incomes. But when it came to total wealth and the likelihood of financial difficulties, the study found that the super-intelligent did not have any advantage over people of below-average and average intelligence. “Financial success is more than just income. You need to build up wealth to help buffer life’s storms and to prepare for retirement.”

    You only have to look in the parking lot of the universities to see that intelligence and wealth is not necessarily linked. “Professors tend to be very smart people. But if you look at university parking lots, you don’t’ see a lot of Rolls Royces, Porsches, or other very expensive cars. Instead you see a lot of old, low-value vehicles,” said Zagorsky.

    Intelligence is not a factor for explaining wealth. Those with low intelligence should not believe that they are handicapped and those with high intelligence should not believe that they have an advantage. 

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The new frontier of neurophilosophy

 

    Consider the following scenario: A wayward trolley running out of control will kill five people relaxing on the track, if nothing is done to stop it. By pressing a lever, you can change the trolley’s track where it will kill only one person. Would you press the lever?

   “Most people say that that’s okay,” says Joshua Greene, an assistant professor of psychology at Harvard. Greene is interested not only in what answers people give to these sorts of questions, but also in what kinds of intuitions drive such moral decision- making and which regions of the brain they involve.

   Supposing the philosophical construct is changed slightly and in this situation, you have to push a person onto the tracks to stop the trolley. He will die but you’ll save five people. Would you push the person onto the tracks? Most people say that that’s not okay.

   Philosophers have traditionally been divided on the matter of how we come to have these intuitions. Some believed moral judgments were rational. Others believed they were emotional. Greene studied the same scientifically, using a fMRI (functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scanner.

   When volunteers were asked whether they would push the man onto the tracks, Greene saw increased activity in the medial prefrontal cortex of the brain, which is involved in emotion and social behaviour. But when volunteers were dealing with the question whether they would consider changing the lever, Greene observed less intensity in the brain. Changing the lever is less emotional despite the fact that numerically the problem is the same – kill one to save five.

   How do cultural differences fit into Greene’s approach to moral intuition? “The trend is that at least with these sorts of questions, people’s intuitions are surprisingly stable across cultures,” says Greene.

   Greene’s research validates the traditional wisdom ‘Don’t take any important decision when you are emotional’  

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